On the second of September I took a scissor and I cut off my hair.
Now in itself, this is not much of a new beginning; I've been doing my own hairdressing since September 2003 (come to think, that makes this most recent cut an Anniversary..) when I looked at my I-never-called-it-a-Rachel on the night before I started sixth form and thought,
That was a new beginning!
I'm not sure exactly how our readership skews, but let's assume that a bunch of you are, like our own boss-editor Amy, goin' off to Uni. Everyone else - I'll get to you in a minute but listen along, OK? You're smart enough to adjust things to your own situation.
University, of course, is a great time to do some pretty drastic "image experimentation". Even if - like Amy and my little Uni-bound sister - you're going somewhere where a pack of your old friends are also gonna be (you wacky kids!) there will still be a) loads and LOADS of people who have never set eyes on you and b) plenty of places to hide if you want to avoid anyone from school who might turn up their noses or ask a snooty question or two.
So let's assume that you don't need to worry about raised eyebrows from the old guard, for whichever reason. If you're in a new place (town, city, country, campus, nighttime hangout, friendship group, class of peers, etc), now is the exact time to move outside your comfort zone externally-expressively as well. When else can you guarantee that the majority of people you meet will first-impression judge you on the green hair or head-to-toe lace that you've always secretly dreamed of- or just once idly pondered what it might be like to have? Quite possibly NEVER. NEVER EVER.
Grasp that chance, my ducklings. Meet your immediate, enormous future with a face that you have constructed around 'possibilities and freedom and mental workouts!'
You can take it all off and grow it all out if you find you don't like it. Then the 'old you' image will be new for all your fine fresh acquaintances, and won't that be interesting?
Hmm, perhaps you are thinking but people may laugh at me? Well, that is true, but people may always laugh at anything. I can tell you that no-one decent is going to laugh unforgivingly at a University student looking silly - even if they do reckon you look daft, daft-lookig students are a deep enough cliche that they're just endearing. Actually, no-one decent is going to laugh unforgivingly at anybody looking silly, are they?
Like I implied earlier, the easiest way to change your public face is to change your hair. You can be conservative and go for a 'new style'.. which I can't help you with. But the internet and magazines and whathaveyou can! You can be as drastic as you please with hair cutting, and presumably you can be as drastic as you like with hair adding. The only experience I have with additional hair was a purple streak I had glued in at the Big Bash in year seven. My form tutor made me cut it out, which I resented, and then I stuck it to a hairclip. But your local hairdresser or hair shop probably have libraries worth of knowledge to help you with that - so get on down to one if you're feeling underwhelmingly hirsute!
If you're looking to cut, there are two obvious choices. You can go to a hairdresser or barber (turn to page 16), or you can cut it yourself (turn to page 48).
We're gonna turn to p.48, because I have no patience with and cannot afford hairdressers and if you decide to visit a professional, they can tell you everything about the procedure/your choices themselves. So! Let's cut our hair!
TOOLS:
Scissors (large)
Scissors (small, i.e. nail scissors)
comb
mirror (plus spare mirror (or helpful friend) for seeing (doing) the back or you)
self confidence + self esteem
piercing glare
decisive feeling of creativity (tell yourself you have it enough, and it will appear)
The trick is in remembering to think of your head as a 3d object. Hairdressing is sculpture, or modelling, or possibly engineering? Think of it in the terms most relevant to your area of interest or expertise. You're trying to make your head into a shape, not a flat image.
Remember: IT DOESN'T MATTER IF IT COMES OUT LOOKING LIKE CRAP. Three reasons: 1) other people probably think it looks charming, 2) think about yourself; all that brilliance can't be dimmed by one lopsided haircut, 3) you can just keep going until it looks "like you". Also remember: A haircut is a work in progress, always. Because hair is always growing! It's going to change amongst itself over time anyway!
My personal, non-lifestyle change New Beginning was how much of my hair I cut off, five days ago when I post this
Aaand I'm back to those of us who aren't off to University. We're probably stuck with the same old colleagues, family members, friends.. OK OK I kid, I kid. What I mean is that we're almost certainly going to be placing a fair bit of stock on, essentially, what the neighbours are going to say about any new look we care to try on. But that's cool - there's no shame in trying out new methods of self expression. Outside of workplace dresscodes, people who jibe you about your skirt or your bob or your whatever are not worth listening to about personal attire. Say to them, "I think it looks nice".
New beginnings, image-wise, are try-outs. Hair grows back - and if it doesn't, there are myriad head-covering options. Clothes can be recycled or gifted or upcycled or donated or sold. Even piercings heal over or can be taken out! Whether they turn out to be a step on the path to your ultimate super-image, a momentary source of interest or respite, a pain in the neck that you don't want to repeat or.. whatever you discover; the only things that threaten to remain are photographs.
And what do photographs prove? "I used to look a way I decided I didn't like, so I changed".
Addendum: If you wear a veil or other I-am-definitely-going-to-wear-it headgear - or perhaps have health-related hair-in-public issues - please forgive me for concentrating on a section of public grooming that doesn't quite apply to you. Add your own tips or ideas in the comments? Please!
Poorly edited-in X-Men cover (so sue me, I only have Pixen and a laptop touchpad right now..): X-Treme X-Men #31, by Chris Claremont and Igor Kordey, cover by Salvador Larroca, published by Marvel. Apparently issued in November 2003 but AH SWEAH I had that picture in September. Seriously, you guys!
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